Choose to Chance the Rapids & Dare to Dance the Tide

bon appetit!

2011-06-15T21:40:00.001-04:00

In April, my family, Alex and I went to a Menu Tasting. All the engaged couples getting married at the Chateau and their families were invited to taste a selection of the 2011 wedding menu. This was just a sample... but we loved it so much we decided to go with exactly what was served. So here is what we will serve on our wedding day!

To start, appetizers with the cocktails...

And then, dinner starts:

A parmesan and black olive salad.

Followed by Champagne Salmon topped with shrimp and a pastry bread.

Then there was a Limoncello Granite, which I didn't take a picture of. My bad.

And the main course...

Veal with a mushroom sauce and other veggies in an edible bread basket. The meat was very tender and the whole thing was soo good.

For the tasting menu, there was a buffet of desserts. For dessert, we'll have a chocolate cake (not pictured).

And for the Sweets Table, we've decided to go with mini pastries, macarons, fresh fruit, and of course, wedding cake!

I 110% recommend going to your venue's tasting menu. It gives you a good idea of what the service and food will be like, as well as presentation.

Currently Loving...

2011-05-21T21:49:00.002-04:00

... these hand-painted, booklet ceremony programs:

{available from NooneyArt}

I wish I could paint and draw like that. So beautiful.

This is all :)

To The Clouds

2011-05-07T09:50:00.004-04:00

Art by TheExtentOfSilence

Alex and I became homeowners last week. Since then we've been renovating and picking out paint colors. Yesterday we bought the paint for our upstairs rooms - kitchen/dining, living room, entrance, and the three bedrooms. We're going for neutrals that are in style right now with hints of gray in just about everything. Silver gray for the kitchen/dining room, sand taupe and medium-dark gray taupe in the living room and entrance, a soft blue gray in the master bedroom, pink gray in the smallest bedroom (my office), and a gray green in the guest bedroom. We're also shopping around for a new sink - I'd like a double sink - and a new faucet that has the 'spray' option.

It's a very busy, very exciting time. Now that wedding preparations are (more or less) complete, this is another big project to work on. I'm so glad we're giving ourselves the time to do things properly without stressing. Renovate in May, then furniture and moving in June, and then the wedding in July. We're getting there :)

It's the Wedding Day

2011-04-29T07:58:00.003-04:00

the Royal Wedding, that is! I set my alarm for 4 AM this morning and my mother, sister and I made tea and coffee and sat in the kitchen together. We watched the guests arrive live to the Westminister Abbey, and we waited for Kate Middleton. And she was beautiful! Absolutely gorgeous.

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I love the lace on her dress, and the plunging neckline - very modern. The simplicity and the pleating of the skirt and the perfect-length train. And of course, a prince!

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Of course I was going to watch this. It's really the wedding of the century - and I'm getting married this year as well. It was nice to watch it with my mother & sister, completely live on air. I can't wait to see more photos in the days and weeks to come.

Are you watching the Royal Wedding today ?

Happy Easter!

2011-04-24T09:54:00.007-04:00

{Image from Style Me Pretty}

Happy Easter, everyone. I hope you are enjoying sunshine and time with your families. Over here it is a lovely Sunday morning -- sunny and bright and not a cloud in the sky. It's mild, and we're all heading out to my aunt's this afternoon for Easter dinner and family togetherness.

I'm still sick. I woke up yesterday extremely congestioned. I've been sick since the end of January. Two bronchitis, one sinus infection, one throat infection, and one pneumonia... which I'm still recovering from, and since yesterday, a "mystery" something. I'll have to go back to the clinic, I've become a regular there. *sigh*

At least there will be sunshine and lots of chocolate and good food in the forecast for today :)

XOX

Budgets

2011-04-22T18:52:00.004-04:00

We met the Chateau last week for a "budget" estimate based on what we want for the reception. The numbers aren't final, but when I saw this on The Budget Savvy Bride's blog today, it made me laugh. The Royal Wedding vs. the Clinton wedding vs. the Average American Wedding. Ready?

Unbelievable, right? Surreal.

The Royal Wedding is in one week! It plays live at 3AM over here -- and I'm kinda considering getting up early to watch it. I'll see :)

100 Days

2011-04-07T15:16:00.006-04:00

{photo from weddingsbycolor}

Today marks exactly 100 days to go until the "Big Day". It's incredible how fast time has flown, especially since the six-month mark in January. We are in full-swing wedding preparation mode in the house. It's really exciting!

The big things are done, or at least, booked, but there are still some important things we need to do:

1. Finalize the Menu

2. Choose a Cake - and Sweets for the Sweets Table

3. Choose Flowers

... the rest are details, such as my favors, tags for assorted objects, seating plans, dress and tux fittings, etc. I'm not in panic-mode or anything... things are getting done on time and slowly but surely. It's good.

But wow. In 100 days I marry my sweetheart. I remember when we got engaged, there were like 22 months to go - forget the number of days. But tomorrow we will be in double-digits. It's really quite exciting!

This is all :)

catch a falling star and put it in your pocket

2011-04-01T19:43:00.003-04:00

... save it for a rainy day.

{print from here}

Well, it's friday. It's been a busy week at work, lots going on. We're having Reading Weeks, this week and next week -- so book presentations, read-a-thons... the kids came in their pjs and pillows one day, they were so cute. Next week we're having book readers and an illustrator come in, more book presentations from the students as well. It's nice, busy, but these things are what make schools such magical places for children.

Tomorrow is the "Soiree des Futurs Maries", the "Evening for the Soon-to-be-Married", basically a Menu tasting at the Chateau. It's supposed to be all fancy and we get to dress up, there's going to be candlelight and musicians and good food and ambiance. I'm really looking forward to it.

I also have my final Masters paper to write this weekend. That I am less looking forward to. I don't even have a topic yet. But it's going to be okay. Things are coming together. I'm happy, stressed out, emotional, anxious, and nervous... but overall, really happy. I feel like I'm catching falling stars, and putting them in my pocket... saving them for a rainy day.

Have a great weekend. xox

The Invites are Sent!

2011-03-14T09:24:00.000-04:00

Now that they are all sent, and I'm starting to get RSVPS (Yay!!) I can finally reveal them!
Let's talk about our invitations. Originally, the plan was to DIY them. I searched for inspiration, and then Alex created a design using Photoshop. We were going to order paper and supplies, and print them out at his work since his job had a super deluxe printer.

... but he changed jobs and very quickly, and we didn't have time to print them. We had the design, but it wasn't printed. So I started searching for having our design printed. I looked at having them flat printed, but in the process, fell in love with letterpress. I searched and searched for affordable letterpress (a walking contradiction, right?). Right when I was about to give up, I found Leslie from 4houndsPress. She understood my vision. She was in our budget. It was like a dream come true. After a few weeks of exchanging e-mails and making sure everything was a go, Leslie sent me our gorgeous invitations:

all courtesy Leslie at 4houndspress

We also had maps made, for a total of 3 pieces. Only the invitations were 2 colors, blush pink and gray, everything else was gray. Did anyone notice the two languages? I had invitations (and consequently, rsvp cards, and maps) printed in French, and also in English. That's double the amount of plates needed.... and I still got an amazing price for letterpress from Leslie. So if your heart dreams of letterpress, contact her. You won't be disappointed!

These lovelies arrived last week, at the same time as my envelopes from Kristen:

And after stuffing my envelopes yesterday, they are now in the mail as of last night! I can't believe how early our reception venue requires the head count (end of April for a mid-July wedding) ... so our invites had to be sent out now so guests have 4-6 weeks to respond.

I can't believe that after months and months of establishing an invitation "vision", that these are now all sent!

Would you consider letterpressed invitations, or calligraphy on your envelopes?

twenty-five

2011-03-08T16:54:00.002-05:00

{print by trafalgarssquare}

today, I'm celebrating my 25th birthday. I don't know why, but twenty-five was always the age I thought I'd become a "grown up". And given all the exciting things that are happening this year -- purchasing my first home, moving away from my parents, and getting married -- I suppose I am getting closer to "growing up".

And at the same time, I can't believe how fast the first half of my twenties went. Halfway to thirty is, well... not scary, but thought-provoking. I've never made a list like this, but I thought that today would be a good occasion.

25 Things I want to do Before I'm 30 (I figure I'll just add one thing per year until thirty to make up for thirty things):

1. fly a kite (I don't think I've ever done this!)
2. go to a proper wine tasting
3. take a cruise, this time with my husband
4. hike to a waterfall
5. sleep under the stars
6. conquer my fear of skiing
7. kiss in front of the Tour Eiffel
8. skinny dip
9. learn to sew
10. add a collection of french children's literature to my library
11. read novels in french for pleasure
12. get a massage
13. do something to "give back"
14. obtain my Masters degree
15. so swimming in the mediterranean sea
16. rent one of those "tiki huts" above the water
17. buy silk in Aruba
18. paint a room a totally unexpected color
19. dance in the rain
20. cook a lobster
21. go fishing
22. go snowshoeing
23. participate in a charity walk
24. familiarize myself with "classic" movies
25. go to a scandinavian spa... in winter

... just a little list like that, but I'm really going to try to do these things. Time goes by too fast otherwise.

XOX

the bird on my head

2011-03-06T20:51:00.001-05:00

I will be sporting a bird on my head on my wedding day.

Ah. Although not quite like Carrie ;)

I'm going for a bit more subtle, without being cheesy. Why a bird? Well, there are love birds on our invitations and there are going to be a few recurring bird elements. Again - subtle, without being cheesy.

So, a bird hair comb. Not a facinator... I didn't want feathers. So I searched and searched. Bird hair combs? Not easy to find. But then I found Lulusplendor. A few convos back and forth, and she made a piece for me. It started like this:

And then, I chose the colors of the rhinestones I wanted (vintage rose and clear, to go with our colors), and the finish (vintage silver, again, to go with our colors, and my dress). The final product:

... the bird that will be on my head, or rather, tucked neatly into the side of the hairstyle I have yet to completely choose :)

Are you into hair accessories?

Productive Spring Break

2011-03-04T15:00:00.004-05:00

{heart factory from PearsonMaron}

It's been a productive Spring Break.

Monday: Stuffed wedding invitations while watching chick flicks. Mailed said wedding invitations.

Tuesday: Was supposed to have Christina over but she had red eye. So I stayed in PJs and watched chick flicks. Yes, that's productive. Resting is productive. So is sleep :)

Wednesday: Tutored. Shopped for wedding favors "supplies", and handmade 44 favors. Took forever... but they are so cute :)

Thursday: Lunched with Anita, shopped with Charlene. Mission was to find perfect bra to go under wedding dress. Have to wait til the fitting to see if this was achieved, but I digress.

Friday: Zumba dance class. Paid drivers permit. Worked on Masters degree.

See? Pretty good, right?

Tell you what feels even better... checking off these things from my huge wedding checklist. Boo-yeah.

Anyone else love crossing things off a list? No? Just me?

Happy Weekend!

2011-02-18T14:34:00.003-05:00

After a week of putting together report cards and excited children (Spring Break is around the corner... I think they can feel it!), I am definitely glad it is the weekend!

My wedding invitations are DONE and on their way to me, as are my envelopes. March's Brides Magazine arrived on my doorstep this morning. I got an A on my Masters paper. I'm seeing my finace this evening. La vie en rose!

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Have a great one! XOX

Favors for a Cause

2011-02-13T14:10:00.003-05:00

Early in my planning process, I decided that we weren't going to have favors. As much as I love how personalized favors can be, I wanted ours to be "more" than just little gifts for our guests to bring home. I wanted it to mean something.

My Nonna has advanced Alzheimer's disease. It's in its final stages: she now doesn't recognize anyone, isn't able to follow or contribute to a conversation, needs help to bathe, go to the washroom, and eat. She needs round the clock care, and has been placed in a nursing home for the past three years because of this. It breaks my heart, but we can't have my Nonna attend the wedding. She is afraid to leave the nursing home, and this wedding - all the people, the different place, the duration of it - would be too much for her.

This decision brings tears to my eyes every time I think about it. My Nonna and I used to dream of my wedding since I was a little girl. She couldn't wait to see me get married. And as I plan my big day, I can't help but think about how much my Nonna would have loved my dress - the princess dress. About how much she would have adored our reception venue for exactly the reasons I love it - its so Victorian and elegant. I can't help but think about how unfair it is that when I talk to her, she doesn't see me, doesn't recognize me, her first grandchild. I can't help but think about how much she would have loved this wedding, how much she would have immersed herself in helping me plan it, and how much she would have enjoyed it. I feel as though she was robbed of that -- she's here, physically here... but mentally, she's not.

In lieu of favors, we are donating to the Alzheimer's Society of Canada, for research for a cure for this terrible disease.

Would you considered favors for a cause?

Inspiration Boards & Concrete Decisions?

2011-02-09T20:48:00.001-05:00

I'm finding that I'm in the part of my planning process that requires real, concrete decisions. Inspirations that can be turned into a reality. A vision, for lack of a better word, of the wedding. So I headed on over to the Mosaic Maker and uploaded my favorite images from my inspiration file. And here's what the result was:

... and now I'm trying to piece it all together. There's a good emphasis here on food, and pretty details. I'm on the lookout for inexpensive striped straws. I'm trying to decide what to do about my hair but my hair trial isn't for a few months still. I'm loving detailed cakes, but I know detailed cakes cost a fortune. I've decided on peonies, ranuculus, and anemones for flowers. I'd love to make a DIY car trail, but with a rented limousine I'm not sure how that'll work...

So as much as I'm trying to visualize, and make things concrete, sometimes I think all I have are loose ends.

Baby steps, right?

We Bought a House!

2011-01-25T10:55:00.006-05:00

After all the looking and the heartaches, we found our little nest. It's located walking distance to the village, to the park, and to the lake. It's a gorgeous neighborhood... and I couldn't be happier!

the offer on the house was accepted yesterday afternoon. Today, we're getting the house inspected, and this week we're getting our mortgage approved by the bank. By next week, it's all finalized! We get the keys on May 1st. Want to see it? Click images to make them bigger :)

It's a bungalow, so its all on one floor, plus a basement. It has a lovely stone facade and a beautiful bay window up front. Also, a huge backyard, almost 10,000 square feet, and very private.

Yay!!!

tandem

2011-01-14T08:31:00.003-05:00

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Ah, it's Friday, and I have the day off. It's bliss. It feels like the past two weeks just flew by since I started work again.

House shopping, I realized yesterday, is a series of "ups and downs" - as Alex put it. We found a lovely house last weekend. Really, really lovely - a great yard, gorgeous word flooring, and in exactly the area we're looking for. The hitch? The owner won't negotiate... at all. And so we've had to kiss that house goodbye. Earlier this week, my mother came home with a reccomendation for an agent - the father of a colleague of hers. So I called him up, told him about the house we had just found, and yesterday, he found us a house that is one street away from the one I mentioned. This house is brand new on the market .. hasn't even been listed yet. No one's visited it - I haven't even seen pictures of it. But it's location is perfect, and its stats are great on paper. We're visiting late this afternoon. I'm trying not to get my hopes up, but I can't help it. And I think that's why house hunting is so "up and down"... you get your hopes up when you visit, and sometimes they crash around you as you're visiting, and sometimes they crash around you when you hear the news that there's something wrong with the house (been there), or that the owner won't negotiate (done that). So, fingers crossed for the house this afternoon. I really, really want it to work out.

XOX

This is house-hunting.

2011-01-07T14:07:00.003-05:00

When I saw this image on The Sweetest Occasion blog today, I thought to myself - "That is exactly how house-hunting feels like". Everyone says, "Oh! You're house-hunting! That's so exciting!" ... and sure. It's exciting the first time you go. Then you realize that it's a process - it really is. It's not like looking for an apartment at all: you're looking for something to buy and commit to for the next 8 to 10 years, because if you want to make a profit on the house, you need to keep it for at least that long. And it's tough, because this means that Alex and I need to think about what we want to accomplish in this house. Yes, we'll be "just the two of us" for awhile, but we're not going to be "just the two of us" for ten years. In five years' time, we'll have started (hopefully) a family. We might have two toddlers in ten years, who knows? So we need at least that much space. Everything matters: location, renovations, potential, neighborhood, neighbors, how the house has been upkept, pyrite, space, layout, privacy, yard, taxes.

We have seen run-down houses, houses attacked by pyrite, houses with a low amount of pyrite (but why take the chance?), houses that have been renovated, small houses, medium houses, bungalows, splits, low ceiling basements, concrete basements. We've seen houses near boulevards, houses that were way overpriced, and houses in lovely, quiet areas. And I think we've come to the realization that within our price range, we can either (a) get a small house in the desired city/location, or (b) sacrifice location/city and get a bigger house for the same price. And I really think we're leaning towards smaller house, better location. Because better locations always sell - and their values always increase. And your quality of life is better there. But you're paying for it, for sure.

The search continues, although we've seen so far one house that would probably be perfect - if only it weren't so small.

Here is the ideal:

- Detached house
- Garage
- 3 bedrooms on the main level
- private backyard
- quiet area
- Location.

Doesn't sound like a big list, right? We don't even have anything fancy in there, such as "fireplace" or "pool". Should be easy to find, right? But factor in everything else, and you've got a soon-to-be married couple looking the like one in the photo.

Hopeful, in love, but pretty darn exhausted. House, where are you? Can we find you, now, please?

Some Things Are Better Left To The Pros

2011-01-06T16:46:00.000-05:00

Confession: early on in my planning process, I had the hope to do calligraphy on my own wedding envelopes.

Realization: Some things are better left to the pros.

Where to go? Etsy, of course! And I found Kristen, the calligraphy genius with incredibly affordable prices.

I was torn between two fonts:

Holly font.

Anna font.

So I ordered samples, and they arrived last week... and are stunning. Kristen addressed the samples to me using her calligraphy, and my parents, who were home and retrieved the mail, knew right away what this envelope was for. And I think that's the idea... that our guests will see their names, beautifully written in this gorgeous calligraphy, and know that inside this envelope holds something special. Like our wedding invitation!

I can't wait to see the final product, and I am so thrilled to have found our calligrapher!

Anyone else have a love for pretty handwriting?

Dressing my Sis

2011-01-04T07:51:00.001-05:00

I'm not having a bridal party. But my sister still needs a dress, and we're going shopping for one today. Here are some quick ideas:

(Dress on the right, Impression 1758)

(Dress on right, Impression 1731)

(Dress on left, in silver as shown)

Anyway, those are just some ideas. Since my colors are gray and pink I'm hoping that her dress will be one of those colors. We'll see - in my experience, I can brainstorm ideas all I want, but she's going to have to try things on. Fingers crossed that it will be a smooth, hassle-free, argument-less experience. Fingers crossed :)

Hello, 2011.

2011-01-01T19:21:00.002-05:00

It's 2011. As many family members have said to me over the past day, it's a "big year" for me - or rather, for Alex and I. We're buying a house, we're moving in together, we're getting married. And it feels wonderful, that 2011 is here, and all these wonderful things are coming up.

I don't often make New Years Resolutions. But with such a "big year" coming up, I decided I'm make some this year.
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1. I want to learn a thing or two about interior design. I want to create a homey but stylish space in our new home (on a budget). I'd like to document some of my inspirations on this blog.

2. Alex and I have recently gotten into wines, and I'm making the resolution to learn more about different types of wines and how to differentiate between a good wine and a cheaper wine. I'd also like to know about different types of wines, tastes, etc.

3. I want to host my first dinner party.

And those are my three goals for 2011. I think I can pull them off.

It's going to be a good year.

Yay! Christmas holidays are here!

2010-12-22T10:12:00.003-05:00

Two glorious, paid vacation weeks are ahead of me, starting today. Can I just say how wonderful it feels? I am so looking forward to seeing family, relaxing in my pjs, watching tv reruns, and catching up on some wedding planning. It's going to do a world of good to not wake up at six o'clock every morning!

Schools are wonderful places to be during the month of December. The past few weeks have been hectic - the kids are excited, and looking forward to Christmas - but we've had lots of fun. On Monday we made apple sauce together in a slow cooker, and I wish I hadn't forgotten my camera at home! It turned out delicious. Yesterday was low-key, with a movie in the morning and snacks and board games in the afternoon.

The week before we had our Christmas concert. Here are my second graders (back row), with the first graders (front row).

They sang "Petit Papa Noel", which was my choice, and "Feliz Navidad", the music teacher's choice. They did great!

I had a large Christmas tree in our class this year. The students decorated it with handmade ornaments and some brought a few from home. I also had Christmas lights in my windows - can you see them near the tree? I was the only classroom with a large tree and Christmas lights.

We made so many Christmas crafts! My favourite of them all though were the large stockings we made and the kids decorated them with glitter and their first initial. I hung them on string using clothespins, and they looked so cute!

It was a good time. I love holiday crafts and holiday cheer, and kids are all about that too, so it works out well :)

XOX

Love Grows Best...

2010-12-14T16:35:00.003-05:00

{by laurenalexander}

Alex and I have an appointment at the bank on thursday to get pre-approved for our mortgage. Then, on Saturday, we're visiting four houses, just to get our feet wet and get an idea of what's out there. In the four houses we've chosen, there's one that I really, really like, and I can't wait to see in person.

It's so exciting to be house-hunting! We've been talking about it for so long and now it's finally here. We were going to wait until January, but the timing for us is good right now, since most houses probably won't sell during the holidays, so hopefully houses we're seeing on Saturday will still be available in early January.

Isn't this adorable? From PrestigeEngravings.

I'll keep you all posted on how it goes :) Wish us luck!

It Tops Our Cake

2010-12-10T09:06:00.001-05:00

Very early on in my planning process, I fell in love with personalized cake toppers. There are such unique and original toppers out there. And since I love Etsy and support handmade, I knew that somewhere on Etsy would be my perfect cake topper.

I looked, and I looked (and even thought I found the perfect one) ... and finally, I came across a pair of love birds too irresistible to pass up:

{From BentBranch}
It was love at first sight. Just look at the details on those little birdies! Each about 3.5" tall and about 3.5" long from beak to tail. The girl birdie will wear a sweet forget-me-not flower upon her head. They boy wears his around the neck. Both birds' heads are jointed and turn for some gentle posing. Each bird also wears a coordinating silk ribbon around his or her neck.

Entirely customizable in colors, but the ones I saw first are the ones above - in exactly my wedding colors, gray and pink! I didn't change very much in my order, except for the flower and ribbon, and I added glasses for Alex.

{From BentBranch}
{Although the groom birdie looks like he's brown, he's actually gray, it's just the lighting}

I am so incredibly satisfied. If even possible, the birds are even more adorable in person. Krista, who is behind BentBranch, is a gem to work with, she's so open to ideas and even sends you a picture of your birds before shipping them! You can't get better customer service, seriously. I can't wait to display these on our cake!

By the way!! BentBranch is having a holiday sale! Enter code Holiday2010 for 10% off anything in the shop! Enjoy... and thanks to Krista, for making the most perfect birdies I could have ever dreamed of :)

Dreaming of Letterpress

2010-12-08T07:57:00.001-05:00

Somewhere along the way, our DIY wedding invites became BIY (buy-it-yourself) invites. Alex got a new job (which he started this week, hooray!) and with that, our invitation workshop was gone. We were originally going to print our invites from his work, you see.

And then I started researching. Alex has designed the whole set, it would be a shame for it to go to waste. Why not have it custom made? And printed via letterpress. It's so luxurious... so formal... so pretty.

Let's see some letterpress eye candy, yes?

{Owls in Love}

{May your stockings be full}

{Future's Gate Invite}

Oh seriously. I am loving the cotton paper and the indentations on it. So you heard it here first. I am officially on the hunt for some (affordable) letterpress invites. I'll keep you posted!

Ever had a DIY that turned into a BIY?

Would it be Wrong...

2010-12-06T07:01:00.002-05:00

.... to spend $200 on a cake plate?

Yes, right?

With customized names...

... and wedding date....

And completely handmade.

Such GORGEOUSNESS.

Now, my mother has a cake stand out every single day, and I never thought I'd have a kitchen counter in my own home without a cake stand. You can put everything on there. Cakes, biscuits, cupcakes, cookies... and what a great piece to keep after your wedding day.

I never thought I'd ever spend so much on a cake plate. I never thought I'd buy one for the wedding. Seriously. But ... now I'm hooked! Someone talk me out of it - or find me something similar, because I'm not so convinced I'll be able to resist!

I think I'll have to head on over to my local "Ceramic Cafe" and see if I can't paint one up similar to this... I'll keep you posted :)

Ever find a (surprise) weak spot? Turns out mine is customizable tableware, lol :)

Don't Do Like I Did.

2010-12-03T07:11:00.002-05:00

Don't go on Etsy, and search by the section "weddings" and see what pops up. You know, just for inspiration... Yeah. Don't.

You will ultimately, like me, find gorgeous things to fall in love with.

You will then, perhaps (like me) rack your brain trying to think of HOW to justify buying it, and WHERE in your wedding to PUT these gorgeous things you'd like to buy. I still haven't justified this, or spent anything, but...

Case in point:

I discovered yesterday (via Etsy, of course) that birch is a really fabulous, rustic chic way to jazz up decor:

A birch just married banner...

Gosh, I love this. A birch vase filled with flowers.

A pretty basket...

and pew cones filled with flowers.

All from braggingbags.

*Le Sigh*

So, don't do like I did, and what you don't know can't hurt you... or your wallet! :)

Anyone else suffer from Etsy search addiction?

Please Write Us a Card

2010-12-01T09:47:00.000-05:00

I've looked at card boxes last week, sharing my inspiration on wanting something different from the card boxes made to look like cakes or presents, and from the ever-popular bird cage.

Awhile ago, I shared my inspirations for having a bird theme (which we're not having - there isn't a theme, apart from maybe a color theme). I really fell in love with these birdhouse card boxes:

{From DoorCountyWoodworks}

And bird theme, or no bird theme... I let it go for a month, but I kept coming back to it. I knew I had to order one. A bit of a splurge, but I can see it being a really great decoration piece for our home. The seller, John, gave a really quick turnaround time, and we personalized the house with the colors I wanted and our names and wedding date. I am so pleased with how it turned out!

I apologize for the bad lighting in the photo. The house is ivory, with a pecan brown roof, and a blush pink door. It looks fabulous in person! I wish you could see it, the photo really doesn't do it justice. Now all I need to make is a sign that reads "Cards" so that people know what to do.

Where can you see piece as decoration this in a home, after the wedding?

Please Add to DIY List.

2010-11-29T09:14:00.000-05:00

Ahem. I have a new project to add to the list.

Hello, Cupcake Flags!

How adorable would this look on a sweets table?

How can you resist?

Seriously.

How?

Winter is Officially Here.

2010-11-27T17:03:00.000-05:00

Image by HillaryBird

I woke up this morning and there was a thin blanket of snow covering the streets, the grass, and the rooftops. Although not freezing cold, winter has officially arrived.

I spent the day in loungewear, and I browsed Etsy and eBay. I watched Sex and the City on DVD. I drank hot cocoa. I had one of those perfect days that involve doing absolutely nothing of importance.

I hope you're having a fabulous weekend, too. XOX

Black Friday Eye Candy

2010-11-26T08:22:00.005-05:00

Ah, I love Black Friday. Even if I'm not American, thanks to Etsy, I can still grab some awesome deals.

Recently purchased:

Wire Wrapped Bermuda Blue Swarovski Drop Briolette Crystal Earrings

...and the matching Bermuda pendant.

The Vitrail Light Pink Swarovski Teardrop Necklaces and Earrings Set - look at the colors in that stone! So gorgeous.

This last one is for my Maman, as part of her Christmas present. She'll love the lilac color.

All eye candy from Estylo Jewelry, who is offering 15% off til Monday, and an additional 15% if you fan her on Facebook.

Have a lovely weekend! XOX

Original Card Boxes?

2010-11-24T08:49:00.000-05:00

We've all seen them. The traditional wedding card boxes.

{No Thanks}

And we've all seen the super trendy birdcages, and hat boxes stacked to look like a cake or presents. But I'm wanting something different... or at least, I'm attempting to find something different!

This is pretty unique. A wood burned chest. From InspiredByMarie

For something more rustic - a birch bark box. Love how the names are carved into a heart! From AprilHilerDesigns.

Or a wooden "treasure chest" wooden box, again with the personalized initials - from Bragginbags.

The mailbox - how cute is this? From SherrysStickers.

This cute stamp has captured my heart! From ScrapYouABook.

As unique as those options are, I don't "see" them working for my venue, or the type of wedding we're having! So the inspiration continues to pour in...

What are you doing for a card box?

Bragging About The Boy

2010-11-23T08:51:00.001-05:00

I just want to take a moment to talk about Alex for a second.

About a month ago, he decided that he wanted to find a more stable job. He's presently a IT consultant for a company and he's worked there for about 6 years now. Being a consultant, he's not on payroll, which means he has to do his own accounting (putting income away for income tax, etc), he gets no paid vacations or holidays, and no benefits.

But he decided - "hey, we're getting married. This is a big deal. And I want something stable."

So he looked for jobs, and interviewed. And he found one that he really wanted... and he got the call for the second interview... and he got it! In two weeks, he starts as an IT analyst. I'm so proud of him. A stable job, a good pay, benefits.... and a guy who really wants what is best for us and our upcoming marriage.

I love this guy.

This is all :)

More Complex Than I Thought

2010-11-22T08:00:00.001-05:00

Today, I am writing about the bolero/shrug/jacket that I am going to purchase to put over my dress in case it gets chilly in the evening. I had given you some eye candy from Vara on Etsy a few days ago. Well, I decided! I'm going to go with the Clea design:

The one she's making for me will have 3/4 sleeves, since I'd need it to keep me warm (yes, in the middle of July). Moving on...

The problem was now choosing a color. Would she be able to match my dress? Was her ivory or white the same as my ivory or white? Then: what if it wasn't??!!

So, I decided to go with one of our wedding colors (I just realized I never posted about those. Oops. Will have to do that) - which are brown, gray, and pale pink. Brown seemed like an odd choice, so it was between pale pink and gray. I decided on gray, since Alex's tux's vest is gray and I figure in pictures it might look cuter. And I'll get more wear after the wedding out of a gray shrug.

Then! The choices: what type of yarn? We have to make sure it's warm, but not so thick that it looks like a winter shrug. What shade of gray? Holy moly. This was wayy more complex than I thought... practically more complicated than finding a dress. For serious!!

After so much patience from the seller, I settled on this:

...which is a pretty, light gray color, almost silver. It's the same material that the Clea is originally made of (see above photos).

Whew! So the decision's done... and Vara is knitting away... and I'm nervous and excited to receive my custom bolero/shrug!

Were you bewildered by the complexity of a choice you thought would be a breeze to make? If so, please share!!

A Totally Gorgeous Find

2010-11-18T08:30:00.000-05:00

I must share this immediately!

You can get your wedding gown sketched. Check this out:

{From Gown Sketch.}

{From Megan Hamilton.}

And, the seller I just ordered from (eeeeee!!):

{from SoliloquyShoppe}

I just loved her style, and she is now working on a custom sketch of my gown and Alex's tux (but she's adding pants for him, lol) ... and she's going to include our shoes! I'm so excited... it's going to be such a whimsical keepsake to frame and hang in our home.

Would you ever get a gown sketch done?

Guest Books - Except Not Books.

2010-11-15T08:22:00.000-05:00

I hadn't given much thought to a guest book, until I saw this trend:

{All images from here}

OK, that last one is being used for a baby shower. But you get the idea!

I instantly loved the idea of having a "guest book" that could be displayed, instead of stored away on a shelf. I loved that this was such a personal way for guests to create a piece of art on the wedding day that the couple can hang in their home.

The only thing is, I don't think my guests will be thrilled about having green (or other colored) thumbprints for the rest of the evening. I did a similar activity with my second graders, and THEY all complained about the ink. If the kids complain, seriously, I can't imagine what my guests will say. BUT, I love it.

This is all :)

What are your thoughts on the thumbprint guest "book"?

A Canadian Soldier

2010-11-11T15:39:00.002-05:00

Today is Remembrance Day here in Canada. It's a day where we take the time to remember and honour the soldiers who fought in the war but also the soldiers who continue to fight for freedom.

When I saw this on JJ Sobey's blog, I asked if I could share it here, because I find it so important...

"The average age of the military man is 19 years.
He is a short haired, tight-muscled kid who, under normal circumstances is considered by society as half man, half boy. Not yet dry behind the ears, not old enough to buy a beer, but old enough to die for his country.
He never really cared much for work and he would rather wax his own car than wash his father's, but he has never collected unemployment either.

He's a recent High School graduate; he was probably an average student , pursued some form of sport activities, drives a ten year old jalopy, and has a steady girlfriend that either broke up with him when he left, or swears to be waiting when he returns from half a world away.
He listens to rock and roll or hip-hop or rap or jazz or swing and a 155mm howitzer.

He is 10 or 15 pounds lighter now than when he was at home because he is working or fighting from before dawn to well after dusk.
He has trouble spelling, thus letter writing is a pain for him, but he can field strip a rifle in 30 seconds and reassemble it in less time in the dark.

He can recite to you the nomenclature of a machine gun or grenade launcher and use either one effectively if he must.

He digs foxholes and latrines and can apply first aid like a professional.
He can march until he is told to stop, or stop until he is told to march.

He obeys orders instantly and without hesitation, but he is not without spirit or individual dignity.
He is self-sufficient.
He has two sets of fatigues: he washes one and wears the other.
He keeps his canteens full and his feet dry.

He sometimes forgets to brush his teeth, but never to clean his rifle.
He can cook his own meals, mend his own clothes, and fix his own hurts.

If you're thirsty, he'll share his water with you; if you are hungry, his food. He'll even split his ammunition with you in the midst of battle when you run low.

He has learned to use his hands like weapons and weapons like they were his hands.

He can save your life - or take it, because that is his job.

He will often do twice the work of a civilian, draw half the pay, and still find ironic humor in it all.

He has seen more suffering and death than he should have in his short lifetime.

He has wept in public and in private, for friends who have fallen in combat and is unashamed.

He feels every note of the National Anthem vibrate through his body while at rigid attention, while tempering the burning desire to 'square-away ' those around him who haven't bothered to stand, remove their hat, or even stop talking.

In an odd twist, day in and day out, far from home , he defends their right to be disrespectful.
Just as did his Father, Grandfather, and Great-grandfather, he is paying the price for our freedom.

Beardless or not, he is not a boy. He is the CANADIAN Fighting Man that has kept this country free for over 142 years.

He has asked nothing in return, except our friendship and understanding. Remember him, always, for he has earned our respect and admiration with his blood.

And now we even have women over there in danger, doing their part in this tradition of going to War when our nation calls us to do so.

As you go to bed tonight, remember this shot. A short lull, a little shade and a picture of loved ones in their helmets.

When you see this, please stop for a moment and say a prayer for our troops in Afghanistan , sailors on ships, and airmen in the air. Of all the gifts you could give a CANADIAN Airman, Soldier, or Sailor, prayer is the very best one."

Earlier this week with my second graders we wrote postcards to veterans, and two weeks ago we made Christmas cards for Canadian soldiers. We spoke about how lucky we are to be living in a safe and peaceful country - that what wearing a poppy means.

XOX

Hold Me

2010-11-10T09:02:00.000-05:00

... kiss me, thrill me...

Well, hold me, anyway. I'm looking for a bolero. Something to drape over my shoulders, over my wedding dress, for the reception. I am one of those people who is always cold... even in summer I have boleros or vests or cardigans with me when I go anywhere - just in case!

{Personal photo}
Case in point... Alex and I in Boston this summer in plain daylight. It was not exactly cold, but you get the point.

Also, last summer when a friend of mine got married, I was freezing in the evening and wore Alex's dinner jacket over my bridesmaid's dress... nice. I don't have any photos to prove this, but Alex's jacket did have a chocolate stain by the end of the evening. Oops ;)

All this to say that I will not be taking the chance on our wedding day. If I am cold, I want to have a cute bolero to put on.

I fell in love with this bolero the second I saw it on this wedding featured on Snippet and Ink...

Gosh. So gorgeous, and I love the red. But sadly, red is maybe too rustic for our wedding and doesn't fit our colors. Plus, if it's going to keep me warm, it needs longer sleeves and a warmer material.

So warmer material I searched for... and found all kinds of boleros/shrugs at all sorts of prices. But then....

{All Available Here}

All all can be done with longer sleeves.

Hello, gorgeousness! Now the hard part: choosing one and deciding which color!

Which one is your fave?

Shoes: Surprisingly, the Easiest Purchase Yet.

2010-11-08T09:01:00.004-05:00

Uh huh. You read that right.

So yes. I love colored shoes. But even I wasn't going to purchase shoes before purchasing my dress.

When I went dress-shopping, one of the boutiques I went to had me put on actual "wedding" shoes to try their dresses on with. It was one of the first boutiques I went to.

Here's what they looked like:

Nothing too exciting, and very far from the gorgeous shoe inspiration I had seen previously! I quickly dismissed them.

But then I had them on for over two hours. They didn't hurt, in fact, they were really, really comfortable. They are leather, and covered in white satin. Dyeable, if I so wished.

I thought it over... but in the end, I knew that these were my shoes. They were comfy, and they looked much cuter on my feet than they did by themselves...

I've considered dying them, but it took extreme measures to even get this photo... I don't think anyone will be seeing my shoes, and if they do, only in glimpses. They look very "bridal" in white, just as they are.... not very modern, but very "bridal" - whatever that means!

Do you think I should dye them?

Oh, Shoes

2010-11-05T08:48:00.000-04:00

I am a shoe person. I LOVE shoes... colored shoes, leather shoes, fancy shoes, work shoes... they are all good. Early on in my wedding planning process, I fell in love with the trend of the colored shoe:

{hello, red.}

{oh, something blue...}

{i heart you, pink}

I could go on and on and on. There is so much inspiration and gorgeousness out there!

Which color is your fave?

The Bouquet Toss

2010-11-03T09:07:00.002-04:00

To add to the list of rebel bride things I am not having, please add "The Bouquet Toss".

And it's really not because I have anything against them. I participated in bouquet tosses and I haven't felt ridiculous or anything like that. I don't think it's degrading, or desperate. I think it's just a reception tradition, and it's fun when there's a large group of women.

{Image Source}
The reason I'm nixing it is because of our guest list size, only close friends were invited to the wedding. And I don't have that many close friends and cousins of bouquet-catching age, and I think having, you know, a small group of women waiting to catch a bouquet is awkward. So, we're not doing it.

What I am considering, however, is having the Anniversary Dance - a song is put on and all married couples are invited to the dance floor. The song is stopped at intervals, in which the DJ says "Those who have been married 5 years or less please step off the dance floor" and so on and so forth, until the last couple on the dance floor with the us is the couple who has been married the longest. And I would hand my bouquet to that woman. I think that is a sweet ode to marriage.

What do you think?

I found a match!

2010-11-01T15:53:00.005-04:00

You guys! I'm back from a fabulous weekend in NYC. We had such a wonderful time! Every time we go, we find something new to do and something different to visit - I love that city. I'm going to proceed now with a photo-heavy post... all photos are taken by me!

Since we were there for Halloween weekend, we went to the Halloween Extravaganza and Procession of Ghouls at St John the Divine, which is a huge Gothic church. Waiting for us for some pre-show entertainment, was this guy:

Then, we were seated with 3,000 other people and watched a silent movie - this year's was The Cabinet of Dr. Caligari (1922). The silent movie was accompanied by the church's organist, which provides the eerie soundtrack for the movie. After the movie, the Procession of the Ghouls begins - a show of amazing costumes parading down the aisle. Here are a few of my faves!

They were all such big costumes, and really well made. This was seriously one of the coolest things we have ever done in New York City.

We also ate some amazing Thai, went to our favorite steakhouse, and were awed by the colors of autumn in Central Park:

And of course, no trip to NYC would be complete without a Broadway Show! This year we saw Mary Poppins... and my goodness, it was wonderful. The sets, the costumes, the singing... it was perfection, I loved it.

But, of course, the whole purpose of our trip was to go to find me a band with engraved sides that would "go" with my engagement ring. We've had some trouble since my ring has such a high setting - many rings were much too low and looked dwarfed next to my e-ring. After trying many on, we found a match!

It's curved so it hugs my more "square" shaped e-ring. The diamonds along it really sparkle and they are the same size as the ones on my e-ring.

The setting is high enough, and well engraved. There is a lot of work on this ring, as you can see in this next shot:

I'm really happy with them together. I love that I can wear both together or separately and both are equally beautiful.

Did you have to travel to find your perfect match?

Matchmaker, Matchmaker...

2010-10-28T13:01:00.002-04:00

Make Me A Match!

Well, not a sweetheart, silly. I already have one :)

{Source}

I'm talking about a match to my engagement ring!

Well, here's the story. Alex had my engagement ring drawn out and made by a local Italian jeweler. His work was beautiful! ... and expensive. When we asked him how much he would charge to make us the matching band, the price was $1,900.

Umm. Alex may have splurged for the e-ring, but a band of this price was definitely not in the budget.

So online I began to search... vintage/antique wedding bands, where art thou?

Apparently, they all live in New York City.

If you follow this link, you will find enough vintage eye candy to last you for days! Unfortunately, I can't copy and pictures to show you. But follow the link, and swoon with me, will you?

Best part? Alex and I are off to pick one TOMORROW, and we'll spend the weekend in the Big Apple strolling the streets, doing a little shopping... and seeing a broadway show, of course! *does happy dance*

Pictures of what I pick will be up on the blog when I get back!

Fingers crossed the matchmaker will be good to me :)

More Cake Toppers - And I Decide.

2010-10-26T10:31:00.006-04:00

Okay, as if I hadn't discussed cake toppers before, here's the latest development.

I fell in love with toppers that are customized look like us. But the ones I really liked made of clay weren't in our price range.
So I kept looking. And I found really cute, mini-alternatives, on pegs.

Cute, right? From here.

Check out that heart with their initials the groom is holding! From bthanari on Etsy.

This one has fabric hair... love that. And they're holding hands!

Notice the hair highlights? From here.

The details on these tiny figurines is amazing! Ultimately, it did come to cost, and which seller could give us the most customization and bang for our buck. And that turned out to be SweetiePieCakeTopper who is now working on ours. I'm SO excited!

Which one is your fave?

A Long(er) Engagement - Part 2

2010-10-25T09:35:00.001-04:00

In my last post, I gave some reasons for our longer engagement period. By the time we get married, Alex and I will have been engaged about two weeks less than 23 months.

Today I want to talk about how having a long engagement feels. I haven't actually discussed this with anyone, so please be kind while I open up my heart.

When we got engaged, it took a few months for our families to all find out, and part of that was because the wedding wasn't in the upcoming year - it wasn't urgent to let people know. My mother once said, "you have plans to get married", which was pretty much it, until we booked our venue, in late October 2009. The major advantage of having a long engagement was getting first pick for big items/vendors: our venue, our photographer, and our band (to be discussed soon). Once we had our venue, we had a date set, and so the wedding was in the foreseeable future.

The first year we were engaged, I have to admit I just browsed blogs, and I collected inspiration photos and created a "Wedding" folder on my computer with various categories: cakes, flowers, dresses, etc. The first year, we booked our venue, our church, and our photographer. At the one year to the wedding, we booked our music (the big band), and at 11 months, I bought my wedding dress. The things I look at now are more concrete: inspiration becomes reality, and the plans are starting to come together. It's time to book things, buy things, plan things. And that is the most exciting part.

But there's the part that sometimes drags it down. The fact that it feels that we've been engaged for so long already, and spent months not "doing" anything wedding-related, that when it comes time to actually do things, many people (family included) are just like "we have plenty of time".

We're at 9 months. Yes, we have lots of time still. But we also have lots to do.

I don't know if that makes sense. I think that maybe things will pick up after Christmas, but maybe they won't. Things will get done because I will do them, but not necessarily because "it's time".

Apart from getting first pick of the vendors, the big pro has been having the luxury of time to decide on things. When a friend of mine got married last year, everything was hurried, and I got the sense that she settled for some things simply because she didn't have the time to find alternatives. I have the time to find more alternatives than I need. I have inspiration coming out of my pores!

Every bride's experience is different. The longer engagement, it has its pros and its cons... and this, so far, has been what it's like for me, and it's also a reason I write on this blog with everything wedding related.

What do you think are the pros and cons of a longer engagement?

A Long(er) Engagement - Part I

2010-10-22T13:09:00.000-04:00

Now that a tease of our e-pics are up, it's time to open my heart, and talk about our long engagement. I will make this post two parts, the first (today) about the "Why", and the next about the "heart" of it ... how it feels.

I think it's safe to say that most couples have an engagement period of 8-14 months, in general. By the time Alex and I get married, we will have been engaged for a little less than 23 months.

When we got engaged in late August 2009, we decided we'd wait until Summer 2011 to get married. We wanted the extra time because:

1. We wanted to save money to buy a house. We're much closer now to our goal for a down payment on a house, and because we waited, this spring we will hopefully be homeowners.

2. We wanted Alex to be this.much.closer to finishing school. He works full time and goes to school part-time, but part-time school obviously takes much longer than going at a degree full-time.

3. My parents would have freaked out.

Now. I know the last one isn't necessarily fair, but that was a reality for us. They thought we were too young (we got engaged at 23). We wouldn't have been able to have anywhere near the type of wedding that we're having without my parents' generous financial input, in which I am able to have pretty much anything I want (within reason) for the wedding. Waiting was like a bargaining chip: if we wait, they will give me a princess wedding. If we don't, we're on our own. Given the other two reasons I listed above, we decided to wait.

From the wedding blogs I visit, it seems like couples either have a "regular" engagement period, or a longer one, like ours (or longer). The reasons for the longer ones vary, but financial reasons seem to always be on the list.

What are your thoughts on a longer engagement?

E-Pics: A Tease

2010-10-21T16:52:00.004-04:00

Our photographer, Louis, just sent us this teaser for our engagement pictures. They are so gorgeous.

All photos from the incredibly talented Louis Pagakis.

My favorite one is the first one - I love the romantic feel of it. The second for me is a glamour shot, and the third is just fun: we had a lot of fun, and many laughs that afternoon. We felt so comfortable and so completely at ease with Louis that it was easy to just let loose. Our photographer was wonderful, knew exactly what shots he wanted and how to get them. Honestly, when we first got engaged, I didn't think we'd have engagement photos. But since they were included in our wedding package, I am so thrilled to have had the experience of posing for pictures with Alex, and getting comfortable with our photographer. I can't wait to see the rest!

Would you ever consider doing a pre-wedding casual shoot?

The Perfect Sign.

2010-10-20T13:26:00.001-04:00

I was looking for the perfect thing to mark our sweethearts table.

I knew I wanted a flower arrangement on the table. Like this:

{Umm. Remember this is the famous photo I keep showing you with no source. I know, I know}

Well. I was really close to finding the perfect sign with TheBackPorchShoppe.

Here's their Mr & Mrs sign.

So I looked into the shop for closer inspection. And looky what I found...

Love the distressed look. And the crackle? ADORE. A quick message to the seller later... can we customize with our names and wedding date? She sent me an example, the signs with picks to put on a cake or in flower arrangements (score!):

My heart stopped. It was PERFECT. And so affordable, too! I cannot wait to receive this piece and share it with you!

So what do you think? Where should I put this little sign?

Setting the (Sweethearts) Table

2010-10-18T14:18:00.000-04:00

Luckily for us, our venue provides tall centerpieces. Although it's not confirmed they will be the same, the ones in place right now look like this:

{Source}

When we visited in July, I had the chance to see the tables set up for a wedding that was going to occur the next day. Here's what the tables looked like:

{Personal Photo}

Pretty, yes? I'm debating getting colored table cloths though, more on that later. The menu, which you see on the butter dish, will actually be folded into the napkin, and placed on the dinner plate. The favors will be placed on the butter dish.

So that is how the guest tables will be set. The sweethearts table, which is just Alex and I, will need a large flower arrangement. Like so:

{Yeah, the photo with no credit since I don't know where it's from. Sigh.}

And, it needs something to mark it as a sweethearts table. So what's a girl to do?

Look on Etsy, of course!

So, I can get....

a laser cut monogram...

a Mr & Mrs sign...

a burlap banner...

The choices go on and on, really... what would you pick?

E-Pics - taken!

2010-10-17T19:58:00.003-04:00

Well, we went for our engagement pictures today! Knowing this, I went to get my makeup done as an early trial for the wedding at Dior. It came out REALLY well. I loved what she did - shades of purple around the eyes and a pinkish lip. Really pretty.

The e-shot were taken in the late afternoon. I really wanted to capture the colors of fall, like my original inspiration. We went to a park/forest area in the city, and did a few random things. Sat on fallen tree trunks, sat on large rocks. Leaned on large trees. Walked in the forest. Were silly. Kissed. Cuddled. Laughed - a lot. Apparently, we're easy to photograph and easy together... which is awesome.

I was a bit nervous going in... I mean, it isn't the most natural thing to do, get your picture taken with your significant other and "pose" for the camera a bit - in fact, it's kinda awkward. But he made it really easy.

I haven't seen the pictures yet, and I'm dying to! Our photographer says he's going to e-mail me them at the end of this coming week. I'm hoping that he stays true to his word, that nothing pops up unexpected, and I can see this fall engagement shoot's photos - asap!

I will be sure to share a few! Stay tuned!

Our Very Silly Pumpkins

2010-10-16T13:10:00.005-04:00

Ah, I am soo glad it's Saturday. Yesterday I signed my teaching contract for the 2010-2011 school year - it's official! Whew. It's always a relief.

I wanted to share with you the 3 pumpkins that I decorated with my kindergarten students. All the classes received 3 pumpkins, and they were entered in a contest. We didn't win... but here are our creations:

1. The Very Hungry Pumpkin: he's covered in uncooked pasta and has a knife and spoon as "arms". check out his spaghetti hair!

2. The Party Pumpkin: this one is covered in streamers and polka dots. Can you see the little pink candles sticking out from his hat? :)

2. The Very Chilly Pumpkin: he's my favorite, wearing a "fur" hat made of cotton balls and a "scarf" to cover his nose and mouth.

We had a blast making those! Keep in mind, this was me with my Kindergarten students who are barely six years old :)

Do you still decorate pumpkins? Share!

Sweethearts

2010-10-15T09:04:00.001-04:00

Now that I've revealed my inner rebel reasons for not wanting and having a bridal party, I will however say that we do of course require two witnesses. My sister will be mine, and Alex (who has no brothers or sisters) will ask his best friend Anthony to be his. We will treat our witnesses as maid of honor and best man, and they will join us for "traditional" church duties, but that's about it.
We are not going to ask my sister and Anthony (who don't really know each other) to sit with us for dinner while we are up and about greeting guests and mingling. So Anthony will sit with our friends, and my sister will sit with my family.

And Alex and I.... will sit at our own table, just the two of us.

{I have no idea where this picture is from! I saved it to my computer awhile ago!}

Yup. We're having a Sweethearts table. And I'm so excited about this! I love that Alex and I will be able to be just the two of us (at least while we're sitting and eating) at some point during the wedding. So many couples say that they don't get any time together, and I'm hoping this will steal some time for us, even if we're surrounded by our loved ones.

Also.... I love how cute sweetheart tables look!

{Source}
Except, we'll sit side by side and our backs will be to the wall so everyone can see us.

Would you ever consider a sweethearts table?

Party-less Bride

2010-10-14T13:38:00.004-04:00

Okay. A post with a bit more emotion to it.

When I was a little girl, dreaming of my wedding (yes, I was one of those little girls), I always imaged I'd have a bridal party. Then, I made friends with women who were not friends with one another, and as years went by, a few went there, and a few went there. Not everyone is in the same place.

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Then there's family. My sister, of course. And I have cousins who are around my age and if I were to have a bridal party, I should be including them.

And here's the thing, the part that really bothered me... the I should be including so and so. If I include x, then I need to include y, and if I include y, then I need to include z.

No. No, no, no.

That wasn't for me. And because I'm an emotional person who can't stand to hurt anyone's feelings, I didn't want to exclude anyone, friends or family. I didn't want to feel like I had to do something that didn't feel right for me. I come from an Italian family. Italians have big weddings: 300+ guests. I didn't want a big Italian wedding. So we're having 100 guests. Italians have weddings in big, traditional Italian halls. I despised the idea of the big, traditional Italian hall - I really wanted a garden terrace with our hall. So we're getting married at the Chateau. Italians have large wedding parties in which they include their sisters, cousins, close friends (on their side), and then the female sisters, cousins, and close friends on their fiance's side. No. It's too much.

So I decided that I wasn't going to have a bridal party.

Not because I don't love my friends and my cousins, or his. But because it wasn't the wedding that I wanted. I want something small (if you can call 100 people small), and intimate, and elegant... but not crowded, not stressful, and not filled with the things I ought to do because tradition says I should.

Don't get me wrong. There are things in our wedding that are going to be very traditional, because I love the idea of Alex and I doing some of the same things that our parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, etc, have done at their wedding.... things that have stood the test of time.

But not this. I mean no offense to those who choose to have large bridal parties. My mother, actually, didn't have bridesmaids, either.

Maybe we're rebels, who knows?

What are your thoughts on a partyless bride?

We don't have a ring bearer.

2010-10-12T06:57:00.000-04:00

We also don't have a flower girl -- which are so disappointing! I would have loved a little girl in a pink and white tutu/flower girl dress. But this is what happens when you are the first in either of your families and your friends don't have kids who are old enough to be flower girls or ring bearers.

Anyway, all this to say is that even if I don't have a ring bearer, I have every intention of having our rings showcased. Not on a ring bearer pillow, but on a pretty, customized dish. I love the idea of the dish, because I'm one of these people who takes off my jewelry when I'm at home, including my engagement ring. Right now I don't have anywhere special to put my ring, but I love the idea of placing my ring (and Alex's) on the dish that was used to hold and bless our rings on our wedding day.

Many of you might be familiar with the gorgeous, and very popular, Paloma's Nest. I came across their ring bearer dishes in Brides magazine, and I was blown away by how elegant the dishes looked.

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Here's the thing. The ring bearer bowls (with holes for the rings to be attached) are quite expensive, and the tiny text bowls (without the holes) are more affordable, but for either, the shipping to Canada significantly more than within the USA. I want a pretty bowl.... I just don't really want to spend a pretty penny.

Keep in mind, the following are all customizable, so the text would be different (likely our names & wedding date):

With smaller text, a different font, and no black ink, this could be cute. Downside: no holes for the rings to be attached. {Source}

Totally affordable and adorable, customizable and low shipping to Canada, from WiseImpressions. I think we might have a winner! I just need to see if I can get the ink pale or without any ink on the text. I'll keep you all posted on my progress!

Which do you like best?

Thankful

2010-10-11T11:51:00.004-04:00

I am thankful for my good health, and the good health of the people whom I love.

I am thankful to have such a rewarding teaching contract this year.

I am thankful to be in the process of planning a life with my love.

I am thankful to have such a warm, loving family.

I am thankful to be surrounded by a small, but supportive group of friends.

I am thankful that my colleagues are more than willing to share their resources and be helpful in any way they can.

I am thankful that I have had the opportunity to travel and see many places.

I am thankful that I know exactly what "home" means, and where it is.

Today is Thanksgiving day in Canada. We celebrated yesterday with my family, we headed to my aunt's for turkey, cranberries, and all the trimmings. It was delicious - and perfect!

XOX

Save The Date - Inspirations

2010-10-10T08:03:00.000-04:00

OK, now that I know that my wedding can be forgotten - which I totally understand, I mean, apart from the people who I see on a very regular basis, the rest of my guests don't see me and as my mother says.... "loin des yeux, loin du coeur", or, directly translated: far from their eyes, far from their heart. Which sounds kind of harsh but really it just means that if you don't see someone, you're not likely to think about them often, and if people aren't thinking of me, they won't think of our wedding.

Enter Save The Date inspirations. I do love this part... researching stuff. Because really, there is just so much *cute* stuff out there.

Like these cute magnet ones.

Or save the date tickets...

Loving how whimsical and artsy this one is.

Or we could try to incorporate our engagement photos.

With photo strips like here...

I really like this one. Maybe I'm biased because it uses our wedding colors :)

I do like the idea of using our engagement photos, though! Some of my family we will be inviting (more distant) have never met Alex so it would be a good way to "see" him prior to the wedding.

What do you think we should choose?

Who Needs Save the Dates?

2010-10-09T09:00:00.000-04:00

Me, apparently.

Before beginning wedding planning, I never heard of save the date cards. Once I learned what they were ... basically a card announcing your wedding date...

{How cute are those?! From Martha Stewart Weddings}

...I realized that over here they are not commonly used. I saw no point to sending them, since our wedding is not a destination wedding, and it's relatively small (100 guests).

Until yesterday:

ring, ring, ring (my dad's phone)

"Hello? ... Oh, hi, Jim......." Insert a few minutes of my father speaking to my uncle, who I only see about once a year. Then he says, "Yeah, and we're planning Catherine's wedding...... Yes, Jim, she's getting married. You knew this...... Of course the date is set! I told you when we booked.... it's on July 16th..... no, not 2012, it's in 2011... that's right, next summer."

And on and on he went, while I sat there, thinking, 'My uncle forgot about my wedding'. And my sister looks over and says, "the world does not revolve around your wedding. People who are not that close to you will and can forget."

Uh. Yes, I realize this. Thanks for putting it so gently, sis.

And so, the Save the Dates are born. With minor alterations, that is. They will be tucked into our Christmas cards, only guests who we don't see regularly (once or twice a year) will receive our Save The Dates.

You know what this means?

Yup. Another DIY project... and this one has to be done quickly so that we can mail them out the 1st week of December.

A Church Exit

2010-10-07T12:30:00.000-04:00

Since we got to revisit the church and meet the priest last week, I've been thinking about a church exit.

Italians don't do "reception" exits. If I want an "exit", it would have to be after the ceremony at the church. As much as I love the sparkler exit....

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So gorgeous, yes? But it just doesn't work during the day. Can you picture our guests in broad daylight outside a church, lined up with sparklers? Umm... no.

And a rose petal toss or birdseed or rice or anything else in fact that needs to be picked up is not allowed by the church, because there is another wedding half an hour after ours and everything needs to be clean and tidy. Fair enough.

I started browsing blog-land for exits that are suitable for during the day. Here's what I came up with:

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The wedding color customizable ribbon wand.

Or,

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the bubble exit.

Now I know both are huge trends, along with the sparklers, but I haven't been to a wedding where bubbles were done. And I found these really cute heart bubble tubes...

And then I started thinking that I could get personalized ribbon with our names & wedding date to tie onto the ribbon... and I was sold.

Plus, the bubbles could be used for some of our pictures after the ceremony:

That's the lovely Mrs. Dolphin via WeddingBee.

What do you think? Yes to bubbles, or should I keep looking?

Still Working On Invitations

2010-10-05T12:22:00.000-04:00

Ahh, invitations. While we're still putting together our guest list, the next logical step seems to be figuring out what kind of invitation we like. While I posted my inspirations awhile ago, we still aren't much closer to getting them finished.

Our invites are our first DIY project. They are truly... a labor of love, to say the least. Finding ideas, finding images, getting the right paper, getting the right font, getting the right text, designing the whole thing, putting them all together, addressing them all... translating them so that they are in French and English.... well, it's quite a bit of work. I think it's more than I had anticipated when we decided to DIY them. When the whole thing is done, I'll have to post a Pros and Cons list of DIY your invites.

For now, though, I wanted to share this video, which really made me giggle. After all, with the stress of guest lists and DIY invitations, you gotta laugh, otherwise, you'll go nuts (trust me).

Finalizing the Guest List

2010-10-04T08:22:00.002-04:00

Ah, the famous list. We drew one up shortly after we got engaged, but since then the "list" has not been revisited. Time to take it out - and finalize it! We have a strict venue person limit, so we have to make sure to not go over it. At the same time, it's important to invite the "right" guests.

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Umm, yeah. I wish it was as simple as following a flow chart, LOL.

So many questions! Family we haven't seen in years... yes or no? My coworkers, who change every year since I'm not "stable" in my job yet... yes or no? Where to cut? Where to add? A list and B list - yes or no?

Who knows?!

My family gave each other the "deadline" of October 15th for the FINAL guest list. Good luck to us... :S

Anyone else have trouble with the famous guest list?

TES October Challenge

2010-10-03T20:43:00.004-04:00

Happy Sunday!

I haven't shared any scrappy layouts on this blog in forever! So I thought I'd share the October challenge from TES ...

Fall is officially here!

This month, I challenge you to layer your punched paper on a page - anyway you like!

Here is my LO:

I used a scallop punch, punched several types of patterned paper, inked them, and then layered them onto my page.

As usual, an amazing prize this month...
The October Kit from Snobby Walrus!

Submit your LO by uploading it into our forum's Contests and Challenges section before October 31st for your chance to win this delicious prize!

Good luck!

Oh man. I wish could enter my own Challenge. LOL :)

Pre-Wedding Reading

2010-10-01T08:04:00.002-04:00

I think that with all the planning that comes with the wedding, sometimes it's easy to forget that you're also planning a marriage. And however beautiful the wedding may be, it's the marriage that needs the most time allotted to it, and it's the marriage that needs the most care in preparing.

So, off to Amazon I went and I purchased the following:

What No One Tells The Bride which if I understand correctly is about all the little things in marriage no one really prepares you for. I think it's more of a light read but it got great reviews.

His Needs, Her Needs.

I read an exerpt from this book and it seemed really right-on, about what men perceive as their priorities and what women perceive as theirs; how the two are different and how to make that work for both partners.

And finally,

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. I've heard a lot about this book so I decided to give it a try.

I haven't received any of the books, but I'll be sure to let you know how it goes!

Do you have any pre-marriage reading recommendations?

a theme?

2010-09-29T07:49:00.001-04:00

I keep going back and forth: should our wedding have a theme? Apart from a color theme, that is.

We're including love birds on our invitations. Should I go with a love bird theme?

I could...

Put cranes on the seating place cards.

And put cranes on the cake...

and identify my desserts with cute bird labels:

{I'm sorry, I have no idea where on the Web those images are from. Bad Blogger Me}

And my favorites that cause absolute heart-flutters...

The lovebird cupcake wrappers in customizable colors.

AND... wait for it....

The bird house card box in customizable colors and a sign with your names and wedding date above the door. *swoon*

The problems? (1) I'm afraid themes are too corny, and (2) I'm afraid this theme doesn't suit our venue! Deep down, something's telling me we won't go with a theme. But wouldn't those images make an awesome inspiration board?

What do you think? Yay or Nay to themes?

Re-Visiting the Venue

2010-09-27T06:46:00.001-04:00

When we booked our venue, it was a dark and rainy, late October afternoon. Since the wedding is going to be in July, last summer, my family and I went to "re-visit" the venue. It was the 1st time my mother and my sister were going to see it.

I was quite nervous! I knew I was still going to love it, because I fell so hard for it the first time. I was just nervous about seeing it in full bloom, and in July when it was going to look like it's going to look next summer. In other words, with flowers and grass instead of dirt and wilted leaves!

It was a HUGE success. The venue is gorgeous! I can't wait to get married here in 10 months!

This is me, my dad, and my sister in front of the Chateau.

How was your re-visit to the venue?

Movie Night!

2010-09-24T07:33:00.000-04:00

Anita came over for a movie night yesterday. We watched The Young Victoria on DVD. We originally wanted to watch a wedding movie, but couldn't think of any we hadn't seen recently - that's how much we love wedding movies!

So, I decided I was going to make a list of wedding movies I have seen & approve of:

1. Father of the Bride. This is my all-time favorite wedding movie. Steve Martin is hilarious!

2. Bride Wars. It's so funny, but at the same time makes you realize to not take it all so seriously 24/7. OH. And I LOVE that dress on Kate Hudson. Vera Wang, you are a tulle genius.

3. My Big Fat Greek Wedding. All about how weddings can get big - especially when the family's involved.

4. The Wedding Planner. This one is all about finding love in the most unexpected, and unplanned, places. And for some reason, it always makes me think of my friend Stephanie, who wanted to be a wedding planner in high school :)

5. Runaway Bride. Ahh, cold feet.

6. My Best Friend's Wedding. A classic!

7. 27 Dresses. Always a Bridesmaid?

8. Sex and The City - OK, not technically a wedding movie entirely, but the dresses! The bird on her head! The shoes! Who can resist?

What's your favorite wedding movie?

Cake Topper - Ideas

2010-09-22T16:05:00.000-04:00

Confession: I'm obsessed with personalized cake toppers. I haven't even started looking at wedding cakes. I have no idea what I want in terms of the cake's style, flavor... nothing. But I LOVE looking at cake toppers! I don't want to spend a fortune, but I do want something that I will keep and put on display and one day show my children and grandchildren.

There are just such fabulous options out there. For example...

How about personalized paper figurines? from concarta.etsy.com

Or maybe clay figurines?

I love, love, love this topper from CakeTopperStudio! If only it wasn't so out of my budget!

This one here, from mudcards, is an adorable & much more budget friendly option.

Or, since our invitations will have a love bird theme, maybe love birds on the cake would be a good idea?

LOVE these ones... that's ee cummings' i carry your heart :) from cottonbirddesigns.etsy.com

Or the ever popular ones from Red Light Studio...

And how cute are those?! from emilie friday.

Ahh.... so many options!

Which topper style is your favorite?

This Has Become A Wedding Blog.

2010-09-19T09:59:00.000-04:00

I was chatting on the phone with Christina the other night, and she asked how the wedding planning was going. I told her quickly about some details that had recently come up, but left it at that. I realized that I don't really talk about wedding planning with anyone - except for my family when it concerns them (decisions and things), and Alex, of course. But to my friends, and to colleagues, and to everyone else who asks how it's going... I tend to just give two sentences or so, and then smile (unless pressed for details, of course).

I don't want to drone on and on about the wedding and planning for it, and I suppose that's why I've started blogging about it more frequently. This blog has quickly become a way for me to document my wedding planning, the process of my thoughts and my ideas. And it saves everyone else from having to hear all about the wedding, 24/7 :)

Yup. I'm a bride blogger.

It's quite fun, actually. And I am so addicted to WeddingBee, a community of brides-to-be also blogging about their upcoming nuptials. Ah, to be surrounded by women who understand the messy, beautiful, detailed, complicated, and personal thing called planning a wedding :)

OK, One More Thing...

2010-09-17T09:29:00.001-04:00

I said in my previous post that my favorite thing about our church was the ornate ceiling. I totally stand by that. There is, however, one other thing, that I absolutely love about our church...

And that's that we, and all our guests, can walk from the church to the reception site, which is literally the next building over.

So after this...

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We get to do this...

Walk to the reception site from the church! Isn't that a gorgeous shot?! With the cyclists... what a coincidence.

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And then, after a few short steps.... we arrive to the reception area, via the back of the terrace/garden.

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And then, our guests will have the cocktail and we'll take some pictures. But you'll have to wait a little longer til I show you pictures of the garden of our reception site :)

What are your thoughts on walking from the ceremony to the reception?

Our Beautiful Church

2010-09-15T09:15:00.001-04:00

I just realized that in my last post, while I mentioned that the priest is ready to meet us soon, I haven't shared pictures of our church! Alex and I visited it very, very briefly ... we walked in and gave our deposit, but that's about it. I'll probably take more pictures to share with you when we go on the 26th, but for now... here are some I found online via photographers' site of other weddings. I find they tell the story pretty well.

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My favorite part of the church is how it becomes a "dome" in the ceiling and how it's very ornate and decorated. I think it will be a beautiful place to get married, and I can't wait to visit it again.

What's your favorite part of (any) church?

This Just In...

2010-09-13T14:35:00.004-04:00

You know what arrived in the mail today?

A letter from the priest that is going to marry Alex and I. He wants to meet us (and the other couples getting married next summer) for an info session. I was so surprised to receive this in the mail.... I kept thinking... already?!! But OK... 10 months in advance I guess you gotta start getting your documentation together?!

We get two choices, either Sept 26 or Nov 7. We'll see which one we go to, but for sure we're going to go.

I found some pictures of the priest (we did already meet him, casually) doing the wedding vows for a couple:

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I'll be sure to share some pictures of our cute church once we visit!

Maui Honeymoon - Part 3: Kapalua

2010-09-11T08:27:00.004-04:00

The last segment of my long honeymoon planning adventure!

After visiting Kihei and Hana, we'll be spending the bulk of our honeymoon in Kapalua, which is in West Maui. We will be there for 9 nights.

I chose Kapalua because it is known for its gorgeous Kapalua Beach, and for its luxurious grounds and feel. We will be staying in a condo on the Ridge, in the Kapalua Villas.

Here is our villa (condo). It's huge!

Yes, we have both a golf and an ocean view! And the Kapalua villas have a shuttle service, so when you want to go to the beach, you just call and they pick you up and drop you off :)

We haven't decided what we're going to do in Kapalua and West Maui yet, except for sure we're going to snorkel, hit the beach, and visit Lahaina, the old Whaling port!

So those are our honeymoon plans! I'm soo looking forward to going, after all this careful planning.

Do you have any suggestions to Kapalua and West Maui? Please share!

Ms. Catherine Goes To Kindergarten

2010-09-10T17:14:00.002-04:00

Yesterday I met my Kindergarten students, and I spent two full days with them. I also went to the school's Open House, and met a few parents. And Kindergarten was.... well, it was a bit overwhelming, but it was a lot of fun. There are so many little things, and the children are so lost ... and can't speak English, which makes things difficult. I give simple instructions and get blank faces. I read a book and no one understands. It's another world from my second graders. BUT, I love the kids, and I love how I can do anything I want since it's not curriculum based. And I can't wait to see them grow and learn English and become learners.

The first day had a few incidents (nothing major, just things that make for silly stories), and today went by really smoothly. The school had a corn roast and the students went out with me and we "peeled" the corn. Cooked, it was really delicious, the school must have bought it from a local farm.

The week flew right by, but I am so glad that it's the weekend! We're ordering Chinese tonight. Yum!

Have a great weekend!

Maui Honeymoon - Part 2: Hana

2010-09-09T08:25:00.001-04:00

On our honeymoon to Maui, we'll be going to three places: Kihei, Hana, and Kapalua. I gave you the details on Kihei, and now we're off to Hana.

Hana is known as "Heavenly Hana", where nature seeps into you. It's supposed to be gloriously lush, and very calm. Since it's so remote, Hana is also expensive to service, and prices are generally steep. We decided to stay 3 nights in Hana.

I did, however, discover a gorgeous little cottage for rent, called the Bamboo Cottage. I fell hard for this place. Just look at it...

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While in Hana, we want to visit Hamoa beach, the Oheo Gulch (7 Sacred Pools), visit Hana town, and generally let the calmness of Hana wash over us, as corny as that sounds :)

Have you ever been to Hana? Any suggestions?

Maui Honeymoon - Part 1: Kihei

2010-09-07T07:53:00.001-04:00

Alright, now that you know that we're going to Maui, and staying in three different areas during our 2 1/2 weeks there... it's time to show you exactly where we're staying!

For the first four nights, we're going to be staying in Kihei. As my Frommer's guide to Maui explains, Kihei is less a proper town than a cluster of condos lining the beach. It's affordable (compared to everywhere else on Maui), and it has lots of restaurants, and it's generally well situated.

Now there's something you need to know about Maui. There are LOADS of condo rentals and timeshares... so many, in fact, that they outnumber hotels and resorts.

In Kihei, we rented a condo for the four nights we'll be there.

Here are some pictures of inside the condo:

The condo also comes with beach gear, and also bicycles, which we're psyched about, for exploring!

While we're in Kihei, we'd like to visit:

1. The Haleakala Volcano, and watch the sunrise. Everyone tells me this is an amazing sight! Doesn't it look breathtaking?

2. Visit Wailea, the playground of the rich and famous :)
3. Visit Makena, all the way at the south tip. Apparently the beach is stunning and very wild.

We only have four short days in Kihei, and then we're off to Hana! In my next post I'll tell you our plans.

Have you been to Kihei, or south Maui? Any tips?

OK... Where On Maui?

2010-09-05T20:43:00.000-04:00

Once we had decided on the WHERE of the honeymoon (Maui), I started looking for "where" ON Maui. It's a pretty big island, is pretty much separated between East (Hana), West (upper West) and South (bottom West, technically).

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There is quite the debate between staying in West Maui Vs. South Maui. Then there's Hana, the "real" Hawaii, the isolated, remote area of Hawaii with one restaurant and one hotel.

Where to stay?

We (read: I) couldn't decide. So we're going to all three areas, and have three distinct reservations. We do have a full 2 1/2 weeks of travel time, however, so... even if it's a lot of moving around, I figure that we do have the time to do it, and this way, we'll experience the whole island.

So, we're going to Kihei (south maui), then to Hana (east), and finally to Kapalua (West).

I'll show you our three love shacks in my next posts!

Have you, or anyone you know, been to Maui? Where did they stay?

Choosing WHERE to Honeymoon

2010-09-03T17:14:00.000-04:00

This summer, I wanted to get started on our invitations. I didn't do that, but I did a lot of other wedding related tasks... and booking our honeymoon was one of them!

I'm going to do this in segments since it's quite the long, elaborated story.

Alex and I decided to prioritize the honeymoon, allocating quite a large budget to it. It will be the first time we take a proper trip together - if we exclude road trips, of course. We decided to give ourselves two and a half weeks for our honeymoon.

So we started thinking about where to go during my Spring Break. With our budget and time frame, we could go to Europe.

Oh, Paris, how we long to visit thee.

I did just come back from a trip to Europe in August, and I knew that Euro trips are a lot of sight-seeing, walking around, and as gorgeous as they are, they are also exhausting.

Since it's our honeymoon, and we're going to *already* be exhausted from buying a house (this spring), moving, wedding preparations, and the wedding itself... we decided to unwind and relax on our honeymoon.

In casual discussions, Hawaii came up. I started googling, and kept noticing how many people thought Kauai was the most beautiful island in Hawaii.

Kauai was a real contender. But then I came across some "cons": apparently there are roosters that crow at all hours (umm... so much for relaxation), and the deal-breaker: the fact that we'd have to take 2 stops (so three flights) in order to get there. With my motion sickness. I wasn't really super excited about this.

We also looked at Virgin Gorda, a little-known British Virgin Island. If we wanted (and we sort of did) a secluded spot, this was it. But then again - for two and a half weeks, that might be a little long to be so secluded with only one restaurant and one hotel. And then flight issue was still standing, two stops to VG too.

My mother stepped in at this point, and suggested Barbados, which is an easy 5 hour direct flight from here. I researched, and even found a gorgeous hotel that caters to adults 16+, and only has a handful of rooms, often rated the number one hotel in Barbados: the lovely Little Arches. But my heart wasn't in it. This wasn't the honeymoon we had envisioned.

So back to Hawaii we went. A little bit more research, and then..

Maui.

It was a one stop flight. It had gorgeous beaches, lots of activities if we wanted them, a volcano to visit, many, many types of accommodations to choose from. We fell in love with Maui and decided to go there - yay!

Up next, I'll tell you about finding our honeymoon love shack :)

1st Day of School

2010-09-02T14:26:00.005-04:00

Yesterday was the 1st day of school. I still get nervous, every single year... and I'm the teacher, LOL :) I met my students, I have grade two this year on Monday - Tuesday - Wednesdays, and on Thursdays (exceptionally not this week, but starting next week) I have Kindergarten. Yup, that means I have Fridays off: woo-whoo!

It was so HOT yesterday... in fact, it's been very hot, and very humid all week. My classroom is like a boiler room... it has the sun on it all day, and is apparently one of the hottest in the school. Let's say that my students and I were pretty anxious to leave the building by the end of the day!

We spent the 1st day getting to know each other, and mostly labelling all their school supplies. It took awhile! Seems silly, but all that "write Ethics on the yellow duotang", etc, takes quite a bit of time!

Anyway. So today I'm not working and my class is with their French teacher (Thursdays and Fridays). I'm going to get some scrapping done today with my September kit from Snobby Walrus that arrived this week, but I wanted to show you what I created with the August kit. I scrapped the Alcazaba, which is a fortress in Malaga, Spain. I also scrapped my first whole lobster experience from last summer in Maine with Alex.

Click on the pictures to make them bigger! :)

Fall Themed E-Pics

2010-08-30T12:05:00.003-04:00

With fall around the corner, our engagement picture (E-Pic) session is coming up! We haven't booked a date yet, but I'm thinking it'll be in October, when the leaves have changed colors. Since we're getting married in the summer, I thought a contrast season would be nice for E-Pics - and nothing beats autumn for pretty!

Here are some pictures I'm loving for inspiration...

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I'm also thinking of having the location for the pictures in an apple orchard... that could be cute. Can't seem to find any inspiration photos for that though. Will keep looking :)

What are your thoughts in fall themed e-pics?

Engagement Anniversary

2010-08-28T18:06:00.003-04:00

Today marks the 1 year since Alex proposed. I suppose that makes it an engagement anniversary, doesn't it? :)

Two things pop into mind:

1 - I can't believe it's already been a year.
2 - In less than a year I'll be married.

I don't think I've ever posted the engagement story... so I thought I'd share it now, and go back down memory lane.

I got back from a big trip to Europe on a Sunday, and that same week, the Friday, he proposed. We were going to spend the evening together, cook together, have a glass of wine, and just unwind. We got to his apartment around 7, it was already darkish out and when we stepped inside the apartment the first thing I said was, "Wow. It's really warm in here." He replied, "Yes. That's normal." I didn't think anything of it, his studio is on the second floor and it is often hot in summer. The way the studio is made, is that there is the front door, and then a hallway that leads to the studio. Alex walked ahead of me into the apartment, and I stayed behind, I put my shoes away, my purse away, and got my slippers from the hall closet. When I walked into the studio, on one of Alex's bare walls, he had created an arch of photos of us -- from the six years ago to today. In the center of the arch, there was a projector showing a slideshow he had created of pictures and captions of the two of us. When the slideshow ended, he got down on one knee, and said, "Catherine, you are the woman for me. I love you, will you be my wife?" .... and then he waited for my "Of course I'll marry you!" and slipped this onto my finger:

It was beautiful and so romantic. The ring itself is a one of a kind, Alex has the jeweler draw it to his specifications. It is entirely made my hand except for the line of dots surrounding the ring. In case you can't see, there are seven small diamonds on the side, total carat weight of .34 for the small ones. The side, front and back, of the ring are engraved with tiny waves. The center stone is a .70 carat, round brilliant, hearts and arrows cut diamond (!!) known to be cut and polished to perfection -- it shines like crazy. I love this ring.

So that's the engagement story, what happened exactly one year ago today.

I LOVE hearing engagement stories! Please share yours, or any you've heard that you've found romantic and special :)

A Bridal Clutch - The Decision

2010-08-27T15:41:00.003-04:00

I ordered my bridal clutch! After carefully selecting my top choices, I decided to go with...

The Bow Clutch By DavieandChiyo.

Just look at it...

SO classic and gorgeous. I love the pearl blue silk lining. Oh, and did I mention that Martha approves?

It makes me giggle that I bought something from a magazine :)

What do you look for in a clutch?

My Feelings On "The Dress"

2010-08-24T19:47:00.002-04:00

I bought my wedding dress on Friday. I wasn't expecting to buy my dress then, and I didn't purchase the dress I thought I was going to purchase.

My mother and I went back to the store that I had thought I had found "the right dress" at... the one I was so excited about and blogged about. We went back there to try the dress again, and possibly order the dress. By accident, we went in the "wrong" door, not realizing that the store had a liquidation store as well as their regular store next door. There, I tried on another dress - a gorgeous dress that was really modern and very couture. I really loved this dress, but the truth was that it didn't fit my body type. I am too petite for a dress like that. It had "pick ups" and they just... made me look more petite. So we went back to see the dress I had fallen in love with three weeks ago prior to going on vacation. I tried it on again.

And all I could see was how low the dropped waist was on the dress. Once I got off the platform the store provides, and onto the floor... I felt so close to the floor. I felt so petite. It wasn't the right dress. And that was a big blow, because I really thought I had found the dress.

The sales lady said to me, "Oh, but I have another dress, same material, very similar..." and she goes in the back and produces a dress I had tried on, and loved, on one of my first dress shopping experiences, when I went with my mother, aunt, and sister in July. I remembered the dress, and agreed to try it on.

It looked beautiful. The waist was at a more natural level, the boning in the dress showed off my small waist, and it had the shape that I wanted. It had the right details, it was just as I had remembered. I remembered how when I had tried that dress on over a month ago, everyone had gasped and loved the dress on me.

At this point, I was feeling really overwhelmed. I didn't want ANY dress on me, I just wanted to leave the store. I felt pressured from sales people, I felt discouraged because the dress I thought I wanted wasn't the right dress after all, and confused because I liked the dress I had on now.

So my mom and I left the store, and we got some air. We walked around the street, browsing some other bridal boutiques and asking specifically to see dresses in the material and shape that I wanted. 99% of stores didn't have what I was looking for. About an hour later, I had made up my mind, and we went back to the boutique, and I tried on the dress I had tried on earlier that day, the one I had tried on with my mother, aunt, and sister present in July.

And I didn't have that "This is the Dress" moment. I had a "this is the right dress" decision. I considered the shopping I had done - and I had done quite a bit. I considered what I wanted, what I was looking for... this dress had it. I considered my budget - this dress fit. I considered how I looked - and the mirror wasn't lying. Although many dresses looked good in the "size" department, not everything looked good in the "height" department. I considered how I felt, and I realized that I couldn't go wrong with this dress, and that if there was a dress that was made to match my personality, this was it. So I said yes to the dress.

The next day, I woke up with a huge realization: "Oh my god. I bought a wedding dress yesterday!" A huge deal. But then I tried on the dress again, and I knew in the pit of my stomach. I knew it was the right dress for me. And even if I didn't have that emotional, big, huge, "OH MY GOODNESS THIS IS IT..." moment, I don't regret my choice at all. I know I made the right decision, and I know that this dress is my dream dress.

Have you (or have you heard of anyone) who didn't have the "this is the dress" moment, but like me, made a rational decision that was right for them?

Chop, Chop, Chop...

2010-08-19T17:06:00.003-04:00

Yes, I love these little cartoons and putting them on my blog. They make me giggle.

I went for a hair cut today. I hadn't been since spring and my hair this summer grew out beautifully. It was finally at that great length. I'm growing my hair for the wedding, and this summer I got some nice length going. But with summer and sun and pool and all that damage, I also had some split ends. So off to the hairdresser's I went, and asked her, specifically, to just trim the ends and redo my bangs. Quarter inch, if that.

Now, my hairdresser and I are the same age. We get along fabulously. Translation: we talk, a lot. And she chops... and talks... and chops, and chops some more.

Result?

My hair is at least two inches shorter, leaving me with hair shorter than I began with this summer.

So. Terribly. Depressing.

I know. Hair grows. Still a little less than 11 months to go. Plenty of time, right? Except my hair grows so painfully slow, it's a miracle if it grows the average woman's six inches per year.

So, rapunzel I shall not be. At least, not today.

Ever been to the hair stylist and experienced someone scissor-happy?

YES!

2010-08-18T17:33:00.003-04:00

{LOL @ Comic}

I found a teaching contract today!

It's an 80%, which is better than last year's 62%...

Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, I will be teaching a Grade Two English. It's my own classroom, however I am "sharing" the class with the teacher who will teach the class on Thursdays and Fridays.

Thursday, I am teaching Kindergarten, at a different school. I LOVE Kindergarten :)

I am so pleased!!!! YAY!

Let Me Pick My Jaw Up From The Floor.

2010-08-13T14:07:00.006-04:00

I LOVE cake toppers that are made to resemble the bride and groom. They are so personalized and so cute.

I came across Margi Wray through a wedding magazine, and her work is amazing... there are so many details...

Wow, right?

The cost? $7,500 US.

You can say "wow" again. That is SO not in my budget.

Have you ever come across something gorgeous, BUT you never thought it would be that expensive, and when you found out the cost, it actually shocked you?

A Bridal Clutch

2010-08-10T20:54:00.003-04:00

OK... so I'm on vacation :) I'm in New Smyrna Beach with the family, on our very "last" family trip, just the four of us. And it's been wonderful and so relaxing!

But that doesn't mean I'm still not looking at accessories :)

Very, very early on in the wedding planning I had found a patterned blue clutch that I loved, and bought it. Now, having found the dress, I know that the clutch won't work with the dress... it's not formal enough. That's what I get for an over eager, early purchase. But I know I will still get use out of that gorgeous blue clutch!

So the search for a fancy bridal clutch is on...

LOVE bows. These two, very similar and the same design, just different materials for a different look. They're from here.

How about some feathers and rhinestones?

Or a pop of color? I love this one, just not sure it's bridal enough. Both are from here.

As soon as I order my dress, you can bet the clutch and shoes will be next!!

I found THE dress.

2010-07-31T22:05:00.004-04:00

(NOT the dress. This one is holds the world record for having the longest train length, at 200.8 meters)

After looking at a few stores, I was getting closer to "the" dress... but I wasn't there yet. There was something missing.... I couldn't say yes to any dress!

And yesterday. Yesterday, on a whim, I decided I wanted to go to a specific shop along the Saint Hubert street, AKA Wedding Dress Boulevard, in the city. I decided on this shop because I knew they carried the designer that I had liked while previously dress shopping, but I wanted to try on other dresses.

And that day... on the way to the shop with my mother... I had a feeling. It was a very strange feeling: I'm going to find my dress today. I don't know where it came from, because really, this was a whim of a shopping trip, and we only gave ourselves about two hours of shopping time.

So I tried on a few dresses, after explaining to Nina, the shop assistant, what I wanted. She pulled a few gowns out for me and also one I had tried on in a previous store and liked.

And then "THE" dress came on. It was (is) over our budget, and I almost said "no, don't bother" when she went to put it on me because of the price. But then I saw myself in it... and I knew. I felt like a princess, I felt romantic, I felt it suited our wedding and our venue. I felt like a bride, I felt beautiful - and I felt like this is the dress I wanted to marry Alex in.

All of a sudden, all the other dresses that I had liked, that I had felt "pretty" in, didn't compare at all.

I had to show my aunt and my sister before committing to buying it... and also had to make sure the extra money was OK with my Dad (who's generously paying for half my gown). I also wanted to "sleep on it".

Well, this morning, I woke up with butterflies in my stomach. I found the dress! And I am SO excited.

YAY!!!!

Getting Closer...

2010-07-27T18:58:00.003-04:00

... to my dream wedding dress!

OK, so I thought I would share with you how my dress shopping experience is going. I have been to three stores, two small ones and one larger. I have tried on about 25 dresses so far - and I can tell you I now know exactly what I want, what looks good on me, and what color I want.

None of which I'm going to spill on this blog (you never know who's reading... hi, honey!)

But, I can tell you this much: I am LOVING dress shopping. It is, hands-down, my favorite part of wedding planning. I love researching gowns, I love trying them on, I love seeing myself as a bride. I love it even when I don't find what I'm looking for.

So far, I have tried on three gowns that are absolutely beautiful, and all three are very different. I called them: the pretty dress, the romantic dress, and the princess dress. I could be happy with any of these three, but I'm not ready to commit to any gown this early in the shopping process... so the search continues.

I will say this, though... When I say YES to the dress... I'll know it's the right one for me, because I'll have looked, and I'll have shopped. I don't know if I'm going to have the "This is It" moment with the dress... if so, then it hasn't happened yet.

The saga continues....

A Year til the Wedding

2010-07-15T20:23:00.006-04:00

I think having a long engagement has its benefits, and I think it has its downfalls, too. One day I'm going to make a proper list of those things - just because, I think it's important to document exactly what a 21 month engagement period means - to me, at least.

Tomorrow marks the one year until our wedding, and I can honestly say that since last August, when we got engaged - the time has flown right by. I'm so grateful I have this year ahead of me to plan the wedding properly. At this point, I'm not feeling stressed at all. In terms of things that are crucial, Alex and I have made good progress. The details are up in the air, but I have tons of time to sort everything out.

So to celebrate the one year countdown, which officially begins tomorrow, I've created my very first inspiration board for the wedding. I've included our venue, flowers I like, a cake I think is adorable in its simplicity, cute details I'd love to incorporate if I can... and the feeling of love.

I feel so lucky to be marrying my best friend. One year to go - it'll be here before I know it.

XOX

The Guys Get Tuxes!

2010-07-10T09:49:00.001-04:00

OK, so the wedding is next July, and I wasn't going to go for tuxes for the guys just yet! The plan was to wait til about January, since I'm only getting my dress this fall.

BUT, there was a HUGE going-out-of-business sale, everything was 70% off! Buying the tuxes now would cost half of what renting them would cost in six months (from a different shop).

So, last night, we went. WOWZA. Warehouse-style, but at least there were sales people there. It look us about two 1/2 hours to fit three guys - Alex (groom), Anthony (best man), and my Dad (father of the bride).

Wanna see? ;) Please excuse the pictures and the goofy expressions... I was the only one here taking pictures and the guys obliged me!

Alex. He's wearing a silver gray vest and a black satin tie. Although you can't see it because the tux jacket is closed, his vest has black running through it. It's very elegant in person.

Anthony. He's wearing a gray vest and a gray tie. His shirt is different from Alex's.

My Dad. He's wearing a dark gray patterned vest and matching tie.

I was going for neutrals, since I don't know what my dress will look like, and I don't know what colors my sister (maid of honor) and my mother will be wearing.

It's so exciting that they have their tuxes! Now those tuxes go straight into the closet, not to be touched until two months til the wedding for alterations!

What do you think?

Hello, Summer

2010-06-24T07:39:00.007-04:00

I have definitely missed summer!

Yesterday was the last school day with the students. We had a field day in the morning, and then most of them went home at lunch. I was left with a dozen after lunch - I put on a movie for them while I cleaned up the classroom. It felt strange to take everything off the walls and to pack things into boxes. It felt like moving. It was one thing when I arrived in the classroom and "moving in"... that was exciting. Packing up and not knowing where you're going in August? Less exciting, for sure. But I'm confident I'll find a teaching job. I just have to be really flexible and adjust my expectations (which should be right now: expect nothing, and hope for a job).

I'm pretty much done. I have to finish packing up the class next week and put some random things back into more boxes, but Wednesday morning Alex and I are leaving for a long weekend to Hampton Beach. I think he and I both are quite tired, and could really use a vacation.

It's been gorgeous out lately, but today is gray and rainy... which calls for scrapbooking and movies :) I haven't posted and LOs in awhile, so watch for that next! XO

We May Be Crazy

2010-06-08T17:56:00.003-04:00

{this cartoon is highly ironic. I don't know how many times I've changed my mind about these invitations}

...because Alex has convinced me that we can, in fact, DIY our invitations. The whole thing. Cutting, measuring, aligning, assembling, *designing*...

I'm nervous and excited about the whole prospect. Nervous that they'll look cheap and home made, and excited because maybe they won't..... maybe they'll look fabulous. And if they look cheap I reserve the right to toss the DIY idea and just buy them. Staying with my "top 5" list, invitations are not on that list, so I am NOT going to stress. I will do what I can. Yes. Channeling the Bridal Zen. ;)

But, I am hopeful that there won't be the need for that. I'm fairly certain that our efforts will not be put to waste... and besides, even though I can't design, cut straight, measure accurately, or align properly... Alex can! And I can assemble just fine :) We should be OK.

Stay tuned....

The Details That Matter

2010-05-21T17:51:00.002-04:00

I'm not wedding planning. I haven't browsed my wedding inspiration websites in weeks. Not that I don't love them, I do, I love seeing other people's weddings and I love the inspiration. I guess it's the constant "detail-oriented" things that are getting to me. The details they say make the wedding, but that just seems like a load of baloney to me... what makes the wedding is that you're getting married and your loved ones are there to share it with you. That's it. So I find myself going to the same blogs - WeddingBee, where real engaged brides-to-be share their planning process, and to A Practical Wedding, where ... it's not all about the planning, but about the marriage. And getting ready for that - which makes so much more sense.

Don't get me wrong. There will be details in my wedding! But they're going to be details that mean something to us. They are not going to be details for the sake of DIY, or trends. And they are not the most important things. Which means: that I'm not going to give myself heartaches over it, and I am not going to waste money on it. I will spend what is reasonable.

I've thought about this, and I've come up with my list of Top 5 details that mean the most to me.

1. Venue. It's so gorgeous that I'm going to feel like a princess just getting married there. It doesn't need all the fluff and extras. It's perfect as-is.

2. Dress. I'm only a bride once. I want a beautiful dress.

3. Music. A reception isn't a reception without music, and I want ours to be good and enjoyable by all (read: NOT club music).

4. Food. Alex and I are foodies, we love different dishes and preparing new things together. I'm Italian and Italians are also born foodies - it brings people together, it's a source of comfort and good memories. Food is important. It has to be quality and there has to be lots of it. End of story.

5. Photo & Video ... so that there's something left once the day is over. So that I have something to show my children. Something to relive, rewatch, reminisce over.

The rest? My quest for vintage tea cups is still on. I'm still loving the idea. But it's a detail, and it didn't make my top five. My favors? Not so important. Invites? I want them to be pretty, but let's be honest... most people throw them out. Flowers? I love flowers. But other things are more important to me. There are a few other details I've already purchased for the wedding, and I think they're adorable - but they are just small details.

So there you have it. A little over 13 months left til the wedding, and that's where I am right now.

A Gorgeous Weekend

2010-04-25T19:17:00.005-04:00

It was such a gorgeous weekend over here. Sunny, warm... and blissfully stress-free. It was wonderful!
A few highlights...

- It actually being warm enough (in the backyard, anyway) to sunbathe
- Finishing up a classic Chick Lit book: no thinking required
- Eating my first Italian Gelato of the summer with Alex in the park
- A little (tiny) hour of shopping, and bought two Christmas presents (yes, already)
- Feeling like summer is right around the corner...

I just might start a countdown until the last day of school (and teaching!) for me. I just might :)

Hope your weekend was just as lovely!!

XOX

About Love

2010-04-08T21:56:00.001-04:00

been busy - and honeymoon dreamin'!

2010-03-13T13:42:00.004-05:00

It's been a while since I've updated. I've been busy lately!

I've also been researching honeymoon destinations for fun.

I don't know where to look!

Hawaii? British Virgin Islands? Somewhere else in the Caribbean?

Somewhere secluded but with activities when we want them... somewhere beachy! Somewhere gorgeous.

I can't wait til this summer! I'm craving the hot sun! :)

Hope you are all well! XO

PJ Day

2010-02-08T12:41:00.002-05:00

Today I have off. No teaching, no waking up early, no discipline, and most wonderful of all, no one in the house for a few hours. It.feels.wonderful.
I haven't had a day like this in weeks, if not months! I am still in my PJs, and plan to stay this way until I absolutely need to change (ie, to go to the gym after dinner). This morning I have lounged around, none absolutely nothing, but this afternoon, I think I am going to put on a chick flick and do a little scrappin'. Yes. That sounds perfect!

I found this inspiration board online, makes me think of a tea party with girlfriends! I'm collecting vintage tea cups for my wedding, did I mention that? Probably another reason I love this board.
Have a great day!!

Village of Love

2010-01-31T16:30:00.003-05:00

I.am.SO.excited!
I have found my decor for my sweets table! I just stumbled upon it, a "village of love".... and my heart gave flutters! I knew it was "the one". There were only one or two of each of the pieces was available, so I knew that if I didn't buy them, they'd be gone when I was "ready"!
Here's a sneak peek....

Here is my castle... since I'm getting married in one, I couldn't believe my luck! This will be in the center of the village we will create. It says "happily ever after" in the front, and "believe" on the back.
Then, I have three little "houses" on each side... I have a B&B, a post office, a restaurant, and two "little houses of love". Every piece is different, and hand painted.

They were quite a splurge, but they are gorgeous! I will be using them after the wedding as a Christmas village under my tree, except mine will be a "Village of Love"!

The doors are all "open", and they have windows. Each holds a tea light candle, and I'll be buying LED candles so they will be illuminated and on display.
So... what do you think? :)

The Everyday Scrapper FIRST Online Crop

2010-01-20T16:02:00.001-05:00

The Everyday Scrapper Website & Forum contributors are pleased to announce that we are hosting our very first Online Crop, from Wednesday, January 20th to Wednesday, January 27th.

Details:

On January 20th, this category of the forum will have 7 challenges, all with prizes, for you to enter. Each challenge hostess (7 hostesses, 7 challenges, 7 prizes) will post her own challenge with an example layout and a photo of the prize.

You have until midnight (eastern time) on January 27th to submit your layouts by posting them on the challenge thread you are entering it for.

Winners will be selected by random.org and announced January 28-30th on the same thread the challenge was posted on.

Come and join us for some fun!

Invitations Part II

2010-01-18T14:03:00.003-05:00

I'm more and more confused. I'm wondering if we should just DIY them. Alex's stepmother has a printing company, so we can have our invitations engraved easily. I can do engraving for the graphic and print, or just for the print. With the invitations in the last post, it would be just the print.

But now I'm worried they aren't classy looking enough. I'm having a black-tie wedding... I need invitations that "show" that, but at the same time are young, and fun.

Here are different sets of invitations....

With these invitations, I could have the bird engraved, as well as have our text on the side. It would be just one color though.
Or, I can buy the invitation with the bird printed, only, and engrave the text.

With this invitation, the tree we can't engrave, because there are too many details and colors, so I'd order it printed flat, and we'd engrave the text ourselves.

I'm so confused!!

Any thoughts?

Invitations

2010-01-14T13:35:00.003-05:00

Even if we're getting married in 18 months, I want to have my wedding invitations ordered and arrived at my doorstep by early July. Why? Well, I want to have calligraphy addresses -- and I want to do it myself. So I'm going to need a lot of time, a lot of patience, and a lot of practice.... which translates into a summer project, since I have the summer off to do things like this.

I found out this week that if I want my invitations to arrive by early July, then I need to order them ASAP. I had no idea, but a custom invitation made takes that long!

I'm thinking of going with etsy seller Paintings By Shanon because she has some lovely tree invitations that really are speaking to me.

Here are the samples I purchased --

This is the Sunflower Tree. Obviously my invitations would have summer flowers, since the wedding will be in July. But it's just the flower on tree idea.

Another Fall Tree I quite like, except this one features pets. I would NOT have any pets on my invitation... so imagine a summer tree without pets.

I'm also thinking about adding a classy "pumpkin carriage" to the invitation, since we're getting married at the Chateau and it could be a theme to consider... Classy, though, inspired by this card box that we saw at the Wedding Show last weekend...

Thoughts?

Choose to Chance the Rapids & Dare to Dance the Tide

bon appetit!

Currently Loving...

To The Clouds

It's the Wedding Day

Happy Easter!

Budgets

100 Days

catch a falling star and put it in your pocket

The Invites are Sent!

twenty-five

the bird on my head

Productive Spring Break

Happy Weekend!

Favors for a Cause

Inspiration Boards & Concrete Decisions?

We Bought a House!

tandem

This is house-hunting.

Some Things Are Better Left To The Pros

Dressing my Sis

Hello, 2011.

Yay! Christmas holidays are here!

Love Grows Best...

It Tops *Our* Cake

Dreaming of Letterpress

Would it be Wrong...

Don't Do Like I Did.

Please Write Us a Card

Please Add to DIY List.

Winter is Officially Here.

Black Friday Eye Candy

Original Card Boxes?

Bragging About The Boy

More Complex Than I Thought

A Totally Gorgeous Find

Guest Books - Except Not Books.

A Canadian Soldier

Hold Me

Shoes: Surprisingly, the Easiest Purchase Yet.

Oh, Shoes

The Bouquet Toss

I found a match!

Matchmaker, Matchmaker...

More Cake Toppers - And I Decide.

A Long(er) Engagement - Part 2

A Long(er) Engagement - Part I

E-Pics: A Tease

The *Perfect* Sign.

Setting the (Sweethearts) Table

E-Pics - taken!

Our Very Silly Pumpkins

Sweethearts

Party-less Bride

We don't have a ring bearer.

Thankful

Save The Date - Inspirations

Who Needs Save the Dates?

A Church Exit

Still Working On Invitations

Finalizing the Guest List

TES October Challenge

Pre-Wedding Reading

a theme?

Re-Visiting the Venue

Movie Night!

Cake Topper - Ideas

This Has Become A Wedding Blog.

OK, One More Thing...

Our Beautiful Church

This Just In...

Maui Honeymoon - Part 3: Kapalua

Ms. Catherine Goes To Kindergarten

Maui Honeymoon - Part 2: Hana

Maui Honeymoon - Part 1: Kihei

OK... Where On Maui?

Choosing WHERE to Honeymoon

1st Day of School

Fall Themed E-Pics

Engagement Anniversary

It Tops Our Cake

The Perfect Sign.